reconciled
DH and I were up till almost 2AM last night, figuring out what-all was going on. We remembered a lot of things we had learned about each other before over the course of our relationship, things that helped put this argument into focus.
It was really hard work and I'm exhausted today, but I'm no longer at the bottom of the Pit of Despair. In fact I'm nowhere near the PoD. If I weren't so tired I'd be pretty darn great.
The best thing is we have a good framework for going forward, too. I'll post details later, since this is stuff I need to remember, and writing things out is the best way of imprinting things on my brain!
It was really hard work and I'm exhausted today, but I'm no longer at the bottom of the Pit of Despair. In fact I'm nowhere near the PoD. If I weren't so tired I'd be pretty darn great.
The best thing is we have a good framework for going forward, too. I'll post details later, since this is stuff I need to remember, and writing things out is the best way of imprinting things on my brain!
posted by Joan at 8:35 AM
1 Comments:
Wow. I feel badly for the both of you. It is terribly exhausting to argue and go round and round. It's happened in my marriage and it ain't easy!
I'm glad that you both were able to talk and reconcile and you are no longer in the Pit of Despair. I've visited the PoD about five times in my life and at those times it feels like I will never climb out.
You have so much on your plate. I hope you can rest and that your entire family has a good Christmas.
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